1. Criticise
Nothing can deflate the moment like a sexual put-down. If he's doing something you don't like, try saying, "I'd love it if you..." instead.
2. Talk about your work, ex, or mother in bed
Sounds obvious, but it's so easy to start downloading the minute you get into bed. Sex is escapism, so pillow talk should avoid the mundane or touchy.
3. Fake orgasm
You'll have to keep up the ruse and he'll never learn what works for you.
4. Be wishy-washy
When your partner whispers, "How do you want it?" don't say, "I don't mind, whatever." Know what you do and don't want.
5. Try to keep up with the Joneses
It's great to get tips from your friends, but don't let it make you feel bad about your sex liRe.
6. Get 'ready' for sex
Sure, it's nice to clean your teeth and shower before sex but sometimes - just go with the flow - hairy legs and all!
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